What you said.
Also, there is a difference between "talent" and "fit". Fans judge "talent" based on HS rankings, fair or not. We get excited by the number of stars next to a kid because we typically do not know much more than that. And in a year or two, those "rankings" are out the window, and it becomes about what a kid has done in college. Which is why portal-mania is such a thing. Lavin recruited awesome off-the-bat, and while both Mullin and Anderson nabbed some highly-rated kids, some of those were available for a reason despite their talent (see Lovett, Curbello, etc).
Ultimately, R-E-L-A-X. I get the frustration, but what matter is not the "timing", but what the roster looks like come fall. However it is formed. Based on his profile, I would have loved to get Clayton. But we have no clue about the inner-workings on all of this, and no doubt there are players who have yet to enter the portal or who might enter the portal who the staff is in contact with.
All I know is that because we have Pitino, none of this concerns me. Because it is Pitino.