Not taking sides but if Panther is lecturing, I know I can stand to learn something.
No one is at more practices than Panther, every home game, knows more players and coaches (current and former), and knows more of what going on and what has gone on. He's a guy that administration, players AND coaches go out of their way to greet. Everything he knows is typically first or second hand and he keeps the negative stuff to himself.
He rarely if ever criticizes any players. I've been on the receiving end of of a lecture by him and i can only say it's like being lectured by your parish priest, and is almost always right. If he says something it's with good reason.
In short there is no one, no one as respected as him. So when people say consider the source, push comes to shove, Panther is a source that is dearly respected and loved around st. Johns.