Sorry, maybe that’s what you and your spouse would do, or is it a revelation that people are different?Yes. You’ve already discussed the pros and cons with your spouse before you’ve booked the flight out there and already know the parameters for the deal.
Or that discussing the pros and cons is not necessarily deciding on them?
Or that there could have been some back and forth as to defining the parameters of the deal on both contracts?
Different strokes makes the world go round, it’s what makes life interesting and challenging.