Cold Spring Harbor is gorgeous...not hating at all I wish I could afford to live there. I was using that as a contrast to my area on the south shore in Suffolk. Suffolk and Nassau are pretty different...if any places are "white bread" anymore, they are likely in Nassau: Syosset, Old Westbury, Brookville, Muttontown, Oyster Bay, Great Neck, Garden City, Roslyn, Sands Point, Manhasset, etc.
If anything it's the Nassau kids that grow up spoiled and sheltered...Suffolk is much more down to earth. It's not me living in the bubble...it's those kids out there. By the way I'm not knocking any of these towns...just calling it like I see it and the ones I just mentioned are really nice.