Marist is currently only accepting 30% of applicants...pretty soon it will be in the 20's. That is unheard of unless you are talking places like Cornell, Duke, etc. Not saying at ALL that Marist is anywhere near there, but their 30% acceptance rate makes it one of the top 100 if not top 75 hardest schools in the nation to get into. Yes chances are you will get into Marist if you got into Nova, BC, NYU, etc. but my point is that they are still in the ballpark within the same competitiveness. I think a big reason Marist doesn't get much credit from you guys is because it wasn't a highly selective school when you were college aged. It really only started to get very selective and gain tons of respect in the late 2000's say about 2006-2007. It went from #14 to #8 in the northeast in just a handful of years.
In regards to the profile of SUNY students, if you don't attend the few legitimate SUNY's: Geneseo, Binghamton, Stony Brook then sorry but there isn't any respect there. Albany, Buffalo, Fredonia, Cortland, Plattsburgh, Oneonta, etc. are a joke for the most part. The bottom rung of my HS class attends those schools. Remember the kids that were druggies and always skipped class but somehow graduated anyway? Those are the schools they ended up at. No exaggeration. I remember one Albany student saying they love when it snows because it covers all the trash around campus and it looks decent for a day or 2 before it melts.
Most CUNY's and SUNY's are jokes save for a few from each. The Providence's, Marist's, Fordham's, Manhattan's, Fairfield's, etc. receive more professional students who don't just want to get their degree...they want to do the best they can. I don't believe you about lawyers and doctors choosing to send their kids to SUNY's. Maybe Stony Brook is the only exception, but they would much rather John's Hopkins or Harvard for law school.