The biggest reason was my family. My wife had a nice job at the local elementary school which she loved, my daughter in college attended SJU and was a cheerleader (free tuition) my oldest son attended Seton Hall (free tuition) and my youngest son attended SJU (free tuition for BA and MA) . All told that came out to about $350-400,000 in free tuition. That was one of the great perks back then. That and a nice TIAA-Cref matching retirement plan which I was grandfathered into with SJU. All the great coaches I worked with ALWAYS let my boys travel with me on road trips when they were old enough, especially Jarvis, Norm and Lavin! My youngest was practically on my staff when he attended, helping out with treatments on the road and repacking my medical bags after trips.
I was offered the Rutgers Head job right after our Final Four

, interviewed for NBA assistant positions, and I almost took over as the Head of the USOC medical staff in Colorado Springs after the ‘93 Olympic Festival. I discussed and interviewed with both the Yankees and Mets for their medical coordinator positions (Yankees said I could stay at SJU too).
But I also enjoyed the fact that I could choose my staff at SJU, mentor them and guide them into better jobs. I have so many former staff members in the NBA, NHL, D1 Universities that it felt right for me to stay. The last few years were rough, especially with Covid shutting things down. But the fact that I love seeing so many of my former players being successful too in baseball and hoops helped me sticking it out!