Like many people here, I am having a hard time controlling myself in a repsonse to you. I don't want to start naming names, because to do so without being inclusive would disrespect even the smallest contributor who gives to the University from their wont.
I didn't know the Tafners. I know people who did, and they weren't only generous to the University, they were beloved. They didn't ask for accolades, they just gave lavishly to the University. Like idiots, most of us have been critical of a certain donor who in a well publicized move, pulled his donation for a field house. I say idiots, and I'm one of those idiots, because that person, Jim Riley, was one of the most generous people, with his money and time, that the university has ever known.
When that well publicized debacle occurred (without us knowing all the facts) and the field house was in jeopardy, Don and Eleanor Tafner stepped in, already having given millions to the University, and in effect said, "We'll take care of the field house". They did it because they were exceptionally wonderful people, and loved the university.
The Tafners weren't born with silver spoons in their mouths, not that it would matter. They worked hard, and it wasn't until Don had the brainstorm of neogitating with the BBC for the rights to some programming that they could offer to US Networks, did they strike success - and "Three's Company", one of the most successful sitcoms in U.S. history, a Tafner production, was born.
The fieldhouse benefits students and all of the athletic teams. The renovation of CA, with great student sections, was done because of generous donors. All of the buildings on campus were paid for through the generosity of donors. EVERY SINGLE ONE OF US WHO ATTENDED SJU BENEFITTED BY REDUCED TUITITION, SCHOLARSHIPS, AND GRANTS BECAUSE OF THE GENEROSITY OF DONORS. (caps intended)
In my day, SJU tuition was so much cheaper than other private schools, because of donors. I couldn't have afforded to go to a private school anywhere else. In my youth, I wasn't thankful enough. I'm still not, but slowly coming to full realization of that fact. Like you, I knew how to complain, mostly stupidly at times (like you).
Without St. John's, my career would be somewhere else. Maybe I would have found success in a different endeavor, maybe not. My own success was because of some innovative acadmeic programs here. Many of the closest and dearest friends I have went to St. John's, and I made those friendships on campus. Not only are they great friends, but people who help keep me grounded, who have a moral compass and ethics that would be hard to find anywhere.
So when you rail against a simple patch, stop and consider that without those types of people, and there are tens of thousands of people who have contributed large and small to the university. Not enough of us do, because we are mostly dumb and ingrateful.
In reading your post, my first inclinication was to think, "Is this the kind of student my donations help support? Why should I even bother to give?" Then I sat down and wrote this response. I'm going to make another donation this week, not for you, but for me. Thanks for helping to remind me that without people like the Tafners, I wouldn't be where I am today.
Without any disrespect to Mike Repole, who by all accounts of people who know him, is a wonderful guy and a generous university supporter, but there are many huge contributors who we should all try to learn a little about. One guy a few Christmas' ago, wrote a nearly $10 million check to the university, after he had already given millions. Last year, when I needed financial advice, the same guy, who I had never met before, sat down with me for an hour and a half in a private meeting that he had no personal stake in. The reason he met with me in the first place? Simply on a referral of a friend, and the common bond that we both attended St. John's.
As we approach Christmas, and will spend hundreds (some of us thousands) on unneeded gifts, maybe we should consider a gift to the University. Without people like the Tafners, many of us would have afforded less than a community college education. It's time to give back.
Thanks for your post, seriously. It reminded me of just why St. John's is a great school, and a great community. It goes far beyond wins and losses of the basketball or other sports teams. And because of you, tonight, I'm more thankful for that education than I've been in a long, long time.
Are we going to have to put up wit these DT patches for another season? One game is enough, we don't need to wear them for another whole season. I know last year it was ET, but this is getting excessive.
Because paying respects to the man who funded the practice facility shouldn't last more than a game. I'm amazed at people sometimes.
Im amazed that we put a patch on our basketball jersey for a donor. Have you ever seen any other D1 program do that? I respect and appreciate the taffners and am fine with acknowledging their contributions by other means, and am even ok with wearing the patch for a game or two. But back to back entire seasons is a lot to wear a patch for a non basketball program / student body or faculty member is a very long time. To be honest one of the things I looked forward to was wearing the patches all season this year.
If we're going to wear a pacth it should be for Lavin not a donor, period.
Alright, Im going to take a step back here. Maybe I did not express my opinion accurately through my posts and it was interpreted incorrectly. My intention was not in any way to disrespect the Taffner family, and what they have done through donations, volunteer time, or love of the university. (or any supporter of the university for that matter). And I like three is company too!
I graduated a few years ago and was on campus when Taffner was built, I have played pick-up basketball many times there. And because of the Taffners part of the facility is donated to the non-athletes at the university. So I along with many others did not have to be kicked off the floor when one of the teams needed the gym to practice - like we did when Carnecesa Arena was the only gym. I too make donations to the school every year like you, and I will continue to do so (granted not nearly as much as the Taffners, but what I can give), not for you and not for me, and not for the athletic teams, but for some person (old or young) out there who wants to receive a catholic education.
I also try to continue the tradition of the values that I learned at SJU, I make sure when I go to church that I put money in the St Vincent DePaul poor box far at least as much as I give to the parish. The Vincentian tradition is also a tradition that does not embellish on individual honors or achievements, but rather on community achievements.
I just simply do not like the look of the patch on the Jerseys (along with the others I have season tix with). I never mentioned this last year because I felt the patch was a great tribute for a season, when I saw it again I decided to make a post. I mean no disrespect to anyone, and I appreciate what the Taffners have done. I support them being horned by the university by all other means (name on the field house, announcements at games, ect.) My post probably should have said “I don’t like the look of the patch on our jerseys”.
I also which they would go back to not having the players names on the back of the jerseys, like in the 80’s.