As someone who spent a large part of my adolescence and early adulthood living a morally bankrupt lifestyle, I am in no position to be the moral compass of anything. As someone who has made many mistakes in life, and not just mistakes, but conscious decisions to engage in illegal and criminal activities, I know how important it is to be given 2nd chances. I can't even count the number of chances that I have received.Monte post=455209 said:I learned a very long time ago that those who claim to be the most moral and ethical, are oftentimes the ones who have the most to hide.fordham96 post=455205 said:The people who have essentially elected themselves the moral compass of this board with regards to SJU fandom is a sight to behold for sure.
As for hiding things, those that know me, know my story. One of the reasons I love St Johns is because I was Blessed to have supportive Professors and mentors as I was putting my life back together. St Johns is also where I learned that as an insecure 34 year old freshman, I had something to offer, life experience. To do this, I had to put myself out there and be honest about my past. The Department of Human Service and Counseling at St Johns was a very close knit group of students at that time, lead by Dr. Donna Petrie, RIP. What I learned and practiced while at StJohns, helped me have a rewarding professional career and also allowed me to attend Graduate school at NYU where I was not insecure or intimidated, since I had a very stable foundation.
The problem that I have with Pitino, is not so much what he did, but his having never accepted responsibility for his actions. With the prostitutes and strippers, he threw the Director of Basketball under the bus, claiming he had no idea what was going on. With the matter of Adidas paying the father of recruit Brian Bowen $100,000.00, Does anyone actually believe that Pitino had no knowledge of what was happening in his program?
Most of the time when I post, I share my thoughts and then do not respond anymore. This is different since Fordham and Monte decided to make personal attacks on those who disagree with them. My values and mores are mine alone, and I would never impose them on anyone. However, I do have the right to express them.
Let me make myself clear, I have absolutely no desire to see Rick Pitino as the coach of St Johns, not because of any of his transgressions, but because he is too weak as an individual to accept responsibility for them.