Avalon and Stone Harbor (barrier Island beaches about 10 miles up from the Cape May tip) are better than any beach in NY, hands down. Plenty wide, without being too wide, the sand is much finer and softer, the water entrance smoother, the low lying dunes prettier, NO CONTEST. Been to Bermuda (close second), been to the Caribbean, been to Greece and Italy, been to California, honestly none of them compare.