Why is Coach's passing something that has touched all of us in such a poignant manner?
Last year while at a small NIL dinner that Storm Marketing hosted, Rick Pitino attended and as we were finishing dinner, spoke to the group from his seat.
When he finished, I spoke. I told him that I believed this job may end up being the most rewarding stop of his career. As example I spoke of the relationship between Coach C and fans. Back then I sat in a large group of 30+ friends and frat brothers behind the st john's bench when it was on the other side of the court. Chris Mullin's parents and family sat above us in the cushioned seats. We would often kibbutz Looie, yelling advice to him, "Looie, press!! Looie, put in ______! Looie, call time out!" Mostly he ignored us, but on occasion would whirl around, wave his hand dismissively and say "You guys don't know what you are talking about", then spin back and resume coaching.
I told Rick we did those things because Looie was always one of us. An alum, a New Yorker through and through. We won with him and lost with him and he knew thousands of us, and millions felt they knew him.
I told Rick, as a guy who lived on the East side (like Looie) , in Queens (like Looie) and Long Island (like many of us) he was also one of us. If he can win big here, and restore this program, this may just be his best achievement of all.
I have an Italian aunt who is also 99, who grew up on the East side in the same neighborhood, and may have been a classmate in first grade (she doesn't recall the name 90+ years later). My grandfather, like Lou's father, owned a small grocery story also on the east side. Familiar.
So many users here posted interactions with Coach over the years. The common thread is they were treated warmly, like an old friend or family.
Genuine. Authentic. Fatherly. Ours.
Goodbye to an old friend. Pray for us Lou.