[quote="redmannorth" post=309501][quote="Eric Williamson" post=309491]Interesting read, but I feel absolutely no sympathy for Rysheed. I understand that he had a tough upbringing, and has gone through some things that no one should ever have to go through. However, he was given every opportunity in the world to be successful, a lot more than most people in similar situations, and he CHOSE not to take advantage of it.[/quote]
Let me understand this Eric, he grew up in a terrible neighbourhood, no father, a sick mother, 6 or 7 younger siblings that he was the father to, looked after those siblings as his sick mother worked , had family members murdered during college and you say he had every opportunity in the world to be successful.
Here was a kid who was a 6 4 great athlete who showed a great deal of promise in basketball, let’s not forget he was not a MCAA, was a home town legend nicknamed Black Jesus and was offered a scholarship to good, not great , universities. That is exactly what he had no more no less. But that is certainly not every opportunity in the world to be successful. All he had was the ability to make money playing basketball somewhere on this planet one day in the future if he was able to spend 3-4 yesrs in college and worked hard at improving his game. Unfortunately , he could not.
Did he make mistakes , sure he did and he and his extended family will suffer the terrible consequences of his mistakes for the rest of his life. However, if you take the time to look at Rysheeds background and try to imagine walking in his shoes for a while I would think you would be a little more sympathetic to his tragic plight. I know I certainly am.
Merry Christmas to you Eric.[/quote]
I'm not saying that he didn't have a tough upbringing....he most definitely did. I certainly would not have been able to deal with all of that stuff. But with that being said, he was also given a tremendous opportunity. According to ESPN, he had offers from St. Johns, UCLA, and Temple. Apparently those aren't "great' universities. I would probably disagree with that statement. No matter who he had signed with, he would have been given a full scholarship, tutors at his disposal, a fantastic support system around him, and any other resource that he may have needed/wanted. To me, he was given the tools necessary to be successful.
Instead, he chose not to use what he was given (which in my opinion was alot more than most). He chose to not attend class and thus become academically ineligible. He chose not to have the dedication and work ethic necessary. He chose to not return to school and try to make it in the GLeague. He chose to get involved with drugs, and to have that gun on him. And ultimately, he chose to pull the trigger. And now he has to live with those choices.
So sorry/not sorry, but I have zero sympathy for him.