Since nearly all of us watched the Super Bowl, I thought it was really awesome to listen to the crowd explode in raucous cheering for our troops every time the screen flashed to those troops watching the game in Afghanistan. Unabashed signs of patriotism in these divided times are a reminder that there are things bigger than the game we watch and play. When I see the sacrifices (up to and including ultimate sacrifices) our troops make for our flag and country, it is a great expression by fans.
So here's the pet peeve part. Paying attention to the national anthem played at SJU games at CA and the Garden, it seems that our opponents are much more respectful in standing at attention, many or most with their hands over their hearts with their eyes on our flag. Our guys mostly mug the NBA shuffle - hands behind their back, swaying back and forth. Compared to our opponents, I think it just looks bad.
I know we have a lot of foreign players, who of course should not be required to salute our flag in this manner, but they should at least stand at attention with their eyes in front of them. Our American players should be required to salute the flag unless they have a huge contentious or religious reason not to do so. It goes without saying that our coaches should all salute the flag in the same way.
Other fans have noticed this too, and I'd like to hear your opinions. I don't think this has much to do with winning or losing, so opinions such as "I don't care as long as we win" really aren't germane to this discussion - of course "I don't care" is acceptable IMO.