Blessings and Carpe Diem: Johnnies and So Much More!

MBaldi

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Will try to keep this post as short as possible. Not meant at all to preach, but rather as an anecdote that so far has an encouraging ending for a 42+ year fan who is turning 54 this fall....

Last Friday, I started to experience some weird neck pain. On Sunday, the pain had increased in severity, frequency and duration. I'm a New Yorker, but have lived in DC for 10 years and was heading to the Kennedy Center to see a show w/ my girlfriend. She looked over at me while I was driving and said, I can see the pain in your face, you had a stroke in your 40s, let's be safe and stop at the hospital to get you checked out. Surprisingly, I maturely agreed.

Following an MRI, it was reported that I have an inflammation of my meninges. The most likely causes are: (1) meningitis (bacterial or viral); (2) cancer (which has a prognosis of around a 6-week life-span following diagnosis); or (3) an auto-immune disease. On Monday, I was given a spinal tap to retrieve CNF fluid. Yesterday, I received the results: negative on meningitis and the presence of cancer cells in the CNF. There is a small chance that there is a cancer somewhere in the body causing an auto-immune condition, but that would still be a significantly better diagnosis than cancer cells being present directly in the CNF.

Even though I'm not 100% out of the woods, this has been, and will be, a life-changing experience with everything that I hold dear in-life, especially with my 12 year old twin girls, as well as not taking for granted my other passions. While I live in DC, I had SJU MSG season tkts last year and renewed them for this year. I will be at every MSG game, this year, rooting hard during this "golden era" for every rebound, assist and basket. At the same time, I will work hard to let the smaller things roll off my back, whether they involve the Johnnies (e.g., placement of my seats at MSG) or other smaller aspects of life.

Bottom line: I will do my best to enjoy and seize every moment of happiness that I am blessed to have during the time I am gifted to be on this planet. Yes, I am speaking from an emotional point of view, but it's also the truth: I will strive to never take for granted all of the wonderful things that I have, including this very special time in the history of SJU basketball!!! I've previously posted the photo below of me and my twin daughters at halftime against Harvard last year, which was their first SJU game and the night before we learned of Louie's passing. But, I am posting it again, as well as a picture of each girl with Zuby!!! God bless, wishing everyone a safe and happy July 4th holiday!!!!

Go Johnnies!!!!!!

-- Bruce
 

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Nothing but warm thoughts and prayers for you. I also have twins, with my son having just moved to D.C and I recently turned 55,

I am trying to live the way you are describing as I have had some health issues as well. Hoping to see you healthy at a game this season and maybe the game at Georgetown?
 
Will try to keep this post as short as possible. Not meant at all to preach, but rather as an anecdote that so far has an encouraging ending for a 42+ year fan who is turning 54 this fall....

Last Friday, I started to experience some weird neck pain. On Sunday, the pain had increased in severity, frequency and duration. I'm a New Yorker, but have lived in DC for 10 years and was heading to the Kennedy Center to see a show w/ my girlfriend. She looked over at me while I was driving and said, I can see the pain in your face, you had a stroke in your 40s, let's be safe and stop at the hospital to get you checked out. Surprisingly, I maturely agreed.

Following an MRI, it was reported that I have an inflammation of my meninges. The most likely causes are: (1) meningitis (bacterial or viral); (2) cancer (which has a prognosis of around a 6-week life-span following diagnosis); or (3) an auto-immune disease. On Monday, I was given a spinal tap to retrieve CNF fluid. Yesterday, I received the results: negative on meningitis and the presence of cancer cells in the CNF. There is a small chance that there is a cancer somewhere in the body causing an auto-immune condition, but that would still be a significantly better diagnosis than cancer cells being present directly in the CNF.

Even though I'm not 100% out of the woods, this has been, and will be, a life-changing experience with everything that I hold dear in-life, especially with my 12 year old twin girls, as well as not taking for granted my other passions. While I live in DC, I had SJU MSG season tkts last year and renewed them for this year. I will be at every MSG game, this year, rooting hard during this "golden era" for every rebound, assist and basket. At the same time, I will work hard to let the smaller things roll off my back, whether they involve the Johnnies (e.g., placement of my seats at MSG) or other smaller aspects of life.

Bottom line: I will do my best to enjoy and seize every moment of happiness that I am blessed to have during the time I am gifted to be on this planet. Yes, I am speaking from an emotional point of view, but it's also the truth: I will strive to never take for granted all of the wonderful things that I have, including this very special time in the history of SJU basketball!!! I've previously posted the photo below of me and my twin daughters at halftime against Harvard last year, which was their first SJU game and the night before we learned of Louie's passing. But, I am posting it again, as well as a picture of each girl with Zuby!!! God bless, wishing everyone a safe and happy July 4th holiday!!!!

Go Johnnies!!!!!!

-- Bruce
Happy to hear that you received encouraging news. Looking forward to catching up with you at a game this season. Will keep you in Prayer ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ
 
Will try to keep this post as short as possible. Not meant at all to preach, but rather as an anecdote that so far has an encouraging ending for a 42+ year fan who is turning 54 this fall....

Last Friday, I started to experience some weird neck pain. On Sunday, the pain had increased in severity, frequency and duration. I'm a New Yorker, but have lived in DC for 10 years and was heading to the Kennedy Center to see a show w/ my girlfriend. She looked over at me while I was driving and said, I can see the pain in your face, you had a stroke in your 40s, let's be safe and stop at the hospital to get you checked out. Surprisingly, I maturely agreed.

Following an MRI, it was reported that I have an inflammation of my meninges. The most likely causes are: (1) meningitis (bacterial or viral); (2) cancer (which has a prognosis of around a 6-week life-span following diagnosis); or (3) an auto-immune disease. On Monday, I was given a spinal tap to retrieve CNF fluid. Yesterday, I received the results: negative on meningitis and the presence of cancer cells in the CNF. There is a small chance that there is a cancer somewhere in the body causing an auto-immune condition, but that would still be a significantly better diagnosis than cancer cells being present directly in the CNF.

Even though I'm not 100% out of the woods, this has been, and will be, a life-changing experience with everything that I hold dear in-life, especially with my 12 year old twin girls, as well as not taking for granted my other passions. While I live in DC, I had SJU MSG season tkts last year and renewed them for this year. I will be at every MSG game, this year, rooting hard during this "golden era" for every rebound, assist and basket. At the same time, I will work hard to let the smaller things roll off my back, whether they involve the Johnnies (e.g., placement of my seats at MSG) or other smaller aspects of life.

Bottom line: I will do my best to enjoy and seize every moment of happiness that I am blessed to have during the time I am gifted to be on this planet. Yes, I am speaking from an emotional point of view, but it's also the truth: I will strive to never take for granted all of the wonderful things that I have, including this very special time in the history of SJU basketball!!! I've previously posted the photo below of me and my twin daughters at halftime against Harvard last year, which was their first SJU game and the night before we learned of Louie's passing. But, I am posting it again, as well as a picture of each girl with Zuby!!! God bless, wishing everyone a safe and happy July 4th holiday!!!!

Go Johnnies!!!!!!

-- Bruce
God bless you MB. Those types of issues are so tough. Glad to hear your results came out in a way that is very encouraging. Hope you continue those encouraging results and enjoy several Johnnie wins this year with your twins!!
 
Bruce as you remember we almost met at a game at msg this season or the one before but you landed late, and unable to be my guest at a rw pregame. Generously you gave me an extra ticket that my brother used.

As promised, we will do a pregame this coming season on me. Sending a lot of prayers yourvway for good news and full recovery.

Mbaldi is a really good dude. Public perception on here is often based on some regrettable passionate and sometimes harsh exchanges. I played schoolyard basketball with essentially the same guys for decades. Sometimes there would be violent arguments over fouls or travelling, but in those decades not a single time was a fist raised. Sometimes the guys who argued most at each other were best friends off the court. Sort of like here. Red.fans is our court. Meeting many of you in person or messaging privately it's a whole different thing.

Just get well soon. A superfan like you, travelling from DC to MSG for all home games you deserve to see the last set of nets cut down. We all do.
 
Bruce as you remember we almost met at a game at msg this season or the one before but you landed late, and unable to be my guest at a rw pregame. Generously you gave me an extra ticket that my brother used.

As promised, we will do a pregame this coming season on me. Sending a lot of prayers yourvway for good news and full recovery.

Mbaldi is a really good dude. Public perception on here is often based on some regrettable passionate and sometimes harsh exchanges. I played schoolyard basketball with essentially the same guys for decades. Sometimes there would be violent arguments over fouls or travelling, but in those decades not a single time was a fist raised. Sometimes the guys who argued most at each other were best friends off the court. Sort of like here. Red.fans is our court. Meeting many of you in person or messaging privately it's a whole different thing.

Just get well soon. A superfan like you, travelling from DC to MSG for all home games you deserve to see the last set of nets cut down. We all do.
Beasts, and EVERYONE on here, a sincere thank you for all of the truly kind words and notes of support. I very much appreciate the sentiments communicated all around. Still an evolving dynamic, but it appears to be a lot better than what the docs initially were worried about.

As a testament to the original student athlete Marco Baldi who kept his poise in NOT fouling "the Pearl" on the last-second layup attempt in the closing seconds of the SJU/'Cuse Big East Finals in '86 (or was it '87?), I think I'm just one of a few diehard fans who adopted his name for Redmen.com, and that there has been some understandable confusion as to the identity of multiple posters. In any event, I'm thankfully looking really forward to what will hopefully be another magical season (and possibly even more magical than last year) -- and, even more so, enjoying it right next to the other passionate and diehard fans on this board that was so thoughtfully created for all of us around 25+ years ago.

To all of us, let's truly try to soak-in all of the blessings of this "Golden Era." It's surreal to know that we are living through something unique and extra special, and I'm going to do my best to appreciate each and every moment. Go Johnnies!!!!
 

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MB , May God โ€˜s Blessings comfort you as you fight this illness . The Auto Immune diagnosis you received is not a great experience but ,better than the other possibilities you mentioned .
I have a Auto Immune illness myself and while every Patient is different , I would advise you of just one thing.
When you illness is identified , whatever it may be, seek out the best Doctor you can find that specializes in that disease . They can be found but , it takes work .
I have benefitted greatly from that advice and suggest you try and do the same .
Being in DC you have a good pool of excellent hospitals . And , you are not too far from Baltimore and Johns Hopkins , one of the Brest Hospitals in America . Hopkins has a lot of great Doctors

Iโ€™m not familiar with the DC Hospitals but , try the ones that have Medical Schools attached . The Best Doctors are usually in those places .

As noted , there are many , many Auto Immune illnesses . Each.one requiring Special Treatment .
I hope you receive the best care .

God Bless you , MB .
 
Your post is so timely for me, MB, and inspiring. It also serves as an important PSA. If something feels wrong, go to the ER immediately. If something is wrong, face it with positivity, and cherish every moment.

I needed that message now more than ever, as I had a heart attack about a month ago. I learned something I never knew. Some blocked coronary arteries are inoperable. So my only treatment for now is meds, and cardio rehab, and hope it strengthens my heart. Plus no more junk food. A big component is a postive attitude and faith-2 things, as a Redmen fan of 60 years, that I need more of.

My wife, who has enough faith for both of us, reminds me that I need to be grateful. Many people don't survive heart attacks. She has endured much hardship in her life. Yet she is my rock, encouraging me and not letting me wallow in misery. Give the meds a chance, she says. Meanwhile, enjoy life and be grateful for all I do have. I can walk and talk. I'm home. I can walk the dogs with her. Not run with them anymore, but i wasn't running much in the latter part of my sixties anyway. I will miss her pasta dishes, passed down to her by her late mom. Have to keep the carbs to a minimum.

Also important is to realize we all are on this earth by the grace of g d. I thought this would never happen to me. As one doctor doing rounds told me, that's how everyone feels in every room in the hospital. I hope you get all positive news from here, MB. Thank you for sharing your story, and reminding me what matters in life. And thanks to all that posted updates on the team all spring and summer.
 
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