Moral victories don't mean much to me. Unless you are talking about Daniel refusing to eat the king's food, which wasn't kosher, and as a result of his faith was enabled to walk through fire.
Our guys are walking through fire and getting fried.
The ability to close out games and make big plays when it counts is what separates NCAA tourney teams from 0-6 Big East teams. Playing teams even for 36 minutes, or coming from way behind to make a score look close don't count for much. It doesn't even say what it appears - that you are almost as good as your opponent. You're not - you lose - and they win. Winning and losing are miles apart.
Their manhood has to be challenged. 37 points in a losing effort means nothing as opposed to 17 points in a win. Not singling anyone out, but he's the best candidate to say to guys "Hey, follow me. We're gonna celebrate tonight."
I think you just singled someone out.
Not singling him out as a guilty party, but someone has to step up and carry the team on their backs. A generation ago George Johnson did just that and in the best loss of our history, nearly led us to victory over one of the best college basketball teams ever assembled. Reggie Carter came up big in big moments. So did Malik Sealy, Jayson Williams, Ron Artest, and any number of players on our better teams. Dwight Hardy had an extended run where we landed in the top 15 on his back.
The distinguishing factor in this tailspin is that no one has stepped up in crunch time. The obvious person is Ponds, but it could as easily be Simon, or Owens. Heck it could be Ahmed. The Mets had a guy who struck out way too much for a leadoff hitter, but in the late innings of big games, Mookie Wilson wold be harder and harder to strike out (just like in the iconic game 6)
Winners step up. Phil Rizzuto's stats seem ordinary, but in the World Series, he played big. Same with Billy Martin. In the book "Joe DiMaggio, A Hero's life", it was described that DiMaggio felt it was his personal responsibility to deliver a World Championship each season, not just a World Series, or 1st place finish.
So big players step up in big situations. Some guys have the stomach for it. Jordan did, better than perhaps anyone. I don't think Ewing did, at least not the NBA Ewing. Larry Bird had it. So did Magic. Walt Frazier did also, Greatness in basketball is defined on how you finished games, not by a stat sheet.
Mullin should read this post to his players (uhh oh, I hear the footsteps of one of our curmudgeons chastising this comment). College basketball players who want to play at the next level MUST step it up here, or else they are just college kids playing basketball, nothing more.