Civil Discourse and Redmen.com

beast of the east

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One of the things that I find really cool about the redmen.com community is the ability to for the most part discuss really hot topics where there are divergent perspectives. Much of our country is so polarized that any websites that allow posts on the most relevant topics confronting our society as for the most part opportunities for posters to belittle opposing opinions, get very angry, and for the most part call each other names.

There was a period as recently as a few years ago, where the "politics and religion" forum on here had to be shut down because there was so much hostility and inability to control emotions that it was totally counterproductive as an exchange of ideas and opinions.

Former Pa. governor Tom Ridge, the first director of Homeland Security in the aftermath of 9-11, said at the time that American politicians and the public in general had lost their ability for civil discourse. He said an essential aspect for the success of the two party system was to sometimes have vastly different viewpoints on the problems that face our society, but to respectfully listen to opposing opinions, and then both sides figure out the right thing to do.

In recent years, despite an ever widening divide between left and right, on redmen.com we've been able to discuss really difficult subjects from different perspectives, from contributors of different races and ethnicity, political persuasion, and economic and cultural differences. For the most part I think this redmen community has handled this interchange really well. On occasion, there have been flareups of anger, which is to be expected when such topics are discussed.

As a result, despite some very different viewpoints I've come to respect and like some posters with very differing opinions on some subjects. People such as Fuchsia, Tom in Salem, Chicago Days, JohnnyFan, and many others present differing views that are cause to contemplate and reflect on. Posters such as Ezi Uzi, Paul Masell and most of you are often so well informed on a variety of issues and write such well organized and cogent, coherent thoughts that they are a pleasure to read, regardless of perspective. Even Fun, who I have a communications detente with that has worked reasonably well, often posts things that are so well researched and composed that I have been inclined at times to break the detente and tell him. There are so many of you who contribute frequently on these off subject topics (such as Monte, and Mjmaher) that it is a reason in itself to log on here.

My point is that while we are all primarily here to discuss SJU basketball, which we all are passionate followers of, I often find it refreshing to discuss politics and religion here in a mostly friendly environment that has largely been respectful even when disagreeing. The community here has been pretty good at labeling off basketball subjects as such, so that those who would rather not read such dialogue, could pass it by.

It was really disappointing that a mod or mods chose to pull the midnight madness thread. One of the posters in that thread, not with his own opinions, but links to others, was Jerseyshore Johnny, one of the most universally respected posters here. The midnight madness event was one of those where basketball bisected political discourse of today, and I enjoyed reading the perspectives while not posting myself. One of the revelations for me at least, was that the term "thug" when used by non-African Americans was perceived as a racial slur. WHile I may have had a contributing opposing opinion on that topic, I will say that I learned something that I will hold onto for restraint when using that word in the future.

While I fully appreciate the mods overseeing discussions here, I hope in the future that we can continue to discuss these topics because in my experience at least, there has been a whole lot less of hurling insults that occur on other websites, and more of a forum for constructive dialogue. Erasing such discussions doesn't make root causes go away, and such avoidance of tough topics among intelligent men and women only serve to polarize us further.
 
I agree. The reason politics was brought into the thread was because of Dave Easts. comments and gesture regarding Trump. Although a polarizing subject, I enjoyed reading the opinions about it. Since I was unable to watch Midnight Madness, I also enjoyed reading the comments about the event, the scrimmage and the overall evening. The thread did take a wierd turn, but I would have preferred if it wasnt deleted but locked. Everything important about MM was already said.. That said, overall I think the moderators are doing an excellent job.
 
Rich and Beast and many others, personal attack and name calling and ad hominem argument are hideouts for scoundrels. They are meant to inflame the emotions in order to discredit and render less effective those who would challenge a position on its merits. I realized while writing this that I am in an enraged state having watched the 60 Minutes piece on opioids last night and remembering that this is just about the fiftieth anniversary of the first time I lost someone I know to heroin overdose. Unfortunately there have been many, many others. Disagreeing without being disagreeable is useful but I also know that there are some people (only one that I remember in the history of this board and he is long gone thanks to Maven calling him out) where my preference would be to put two in the base of the skull before starting the discussion.
 
As far as Midnight Madness, may I suggest that in the future discussions pertaining to MM be limited to discussing the players and general atmosphere around the basketball teams. I may have been one of the few hundred watching the festivities that were over 40 and can tell you it is a student event at St. John's and not an event for older fans, alums or serious basketball junkies as it is at UNC, Kentucky or some other programs. It is a "happening" and you need to be present to appreciate how kids entertain themselves these days. It is also rather disorganized at SJU. ;) Discussing the event on line does not really do it justice if you want to focus on the students and the entertainment.
As for those who get their Depends all wet discussing religion, race, politics or other non basketball topics, don't bring them into discussion. Especially if you can't tolerate rebuttals. Thankfully the season is upon us and I am sure that everyone will be focusing on the play of the team and its coaching staff rather than Trump, the correct definition of words , etc.
 
I've been on the road a couple weeks and saw the long thread but based on the posts on the last page or two I decided it was one that I would ignore. So where can I go to see such conversation on how the players looked.
 
Back when we first started bringing politics on the board ( I think maybe 2000 ) it got really crazy. Personal attacks flew faster than an Amar 3 pointer. It was a free for all. Then we had I think the first redmen.com get together ( Mkras might remember the year as he organized it with me at Mustang Sally's ) and then all the sudden you see the person you are have been arguing with and some didnt even realize that the person on the other side of the argument you went to school with ( Kranmars and myself ) from that point at least for me you kind of just get past the personal attacks because when you meet the other posters you realize in general it's just a bunch of great guys with different viewpoints.

It' definitely gotten a lot less volatile over the years and a lot of the crazy stuff said sometimes is tongue in cheek but if you dont know the person personally I can see how people could misinterpret things

In the end I'd hope that no matter how much we argue 99% of the time the person you are arguing with is most likely a great guy that you just haven't met yet but might in the future at a game
 
I've been on the road a couple weeks and saw the long thread but based on the posts on the last page or two I decided it was one that I would ignore. So where can I go to see such conversation on how the players looked.

Nowhere since almost none of the denizens who frequent this forum actually were NOT at the event. I understand that it was partially broadcast on a St. John's Facebook site but not sure if it is archived for viewing.
Players who looked like they worked on their physical strength were Yakwe, Alibegovic and Owens. Owens however does not look like he gained much weight but he and Yakwe are quick and agile. Alibegovic definitely bulked up a bit and hit his first 2 shots that were treys of course. He also looked to pass more than his teammates. Clark, although strong, does not look 6'7. He had a nice touch from the outside and dunked with ease. Marcus looked as good as last season but Shamorie just clowned around and took ridiculous 30 foot shots, all while wearing a Carmelo Anthony hoodie. Why Mullin allowed it is beyond me. It was as if he was detached from the team....in more ways than one. Would not be shocked if he declared and Marcus stayed. Mikey Dixon is a smooth smallish guard with an excellent stroke. Bryan Trimble looked like a man-child. He showed a nice outside shot and no one is going overpower him in games as was the case with Musso. He would remind some older fans of Bernard Rencher but taller. That said, he appeared heavier than 200 lbs and hopefully can stay with quicker guards like Justin Simon who is super quick. Not sure I like Justin's stroke but not the event to judge him as he was, like Slick, just having fun. Ahmed looked identical to last year including trying to split the defense when not needed. I wish Sedee Keita was eligible THIS year. He looks like a bigger version of Yakwe but looks his height at 6'9 and has room to get stronger. Hit an outside shot.
Matt chatted up the recruits, especially Jordan Brown but he likely is a long shot given his ranking. He would look great running with Owens, Clark, Josh Roberts, Yakwe and Keita up front. Boubacar Diakite was dressed and was not hobbled and hopefully can contribute 2 years down the road after Yakwe and Clark depart.
Mullin and coaches were having fun with the players. Mullin defensive style was evident through the scrimmage.
 
I skipped this years midnight madness after attending last years with my just turned teenage son who had a blast. Even though I think I act young for my age, it is more the scene for a 19 year old then an over 45 year old dad. We watched most of it together on Facebook this year as we enjoy seeing the kids on the team even if they are just having fun. They cut the broadcast off before the rapper so I would not have given it a second thought if not for redmen.com. I started posting actively less then five years ago at a time when I really needed an outlet. I used to get very heated in some exchanges but recently made the decision to avoid as much as possible the political discussions. That said I generally read them as they are entertaining and sometimes informative.

The community on here is really nice and I am glad that I can be a part of it.
 
One of the things that I find really cool about the redmen.com community is the ability to for the most part discuss really hot topics where there are divergent perspectives. Much of our country is so polarized that any websites that allow posts on the most relevant topics confronting our society as for the most part opportunities for posters to belittle opposing opinions, get very angry, and for the most part call each other names.

There was a period as recently as a few years ago, where the "politics and religion" forum on here had to be shut down because there was so much hostility and inability to control emotions that it was totally counterproductive as an exchange of ideas and opinions.

Former Pa. governor Tom Ridge, the first director of Homeland Security in the aftermath of 9-11, said at the time that American politicians and the public in general had lost their ability for civil discourse. He said an essential aspect for the success of the two party system was to sometimes have vastly different viewpoints on the problems that face our society, but to respectfully listen to opposing opinions, and then both sides figure out the right thing to do.

In recent years, despite an ever widening divide between left and right, on redmen.com we've been able to discuss really difficult subjects from different perspectives, from contributors of different races and ethnicity, political persuasion, and economic and cultural differences. For the most part I think this redmen community has handled this interchange really well. On occasion, there have been flareups of anger, which is to be expected when such topics are discussed.

As a result, despite some very different viewpoints I've come to respect and like some posters with very differing opinions on some subjects. People such as Fuchsia, Tom in Salem, Chicago Days, JohnnyFan, and many others present differing views that are cause to contemplate and reflect on. Posters such as Ezi Uzi, Paul Masell and most of you are often so well informed on a variety of issues and write such well organized and cogent, coherent thoughts that they are a pleasure to read, regardless of perspective. Even Fun, who I have a communications detente with that has worked reasonably well, often posts things that are so well researched and composed that I have been inclined at times to break the detente and tell him. There are so many of you who contribute frequently on these off subject topics (such as Monte, and Mjmaher) that it is a reason in itself to log on here.

My point is that while we are all primarily here to discuss SJU basketball, which we all are passionate followers of, I often find it refreshing to discuss politics and religion here in a mostly friendly environment that has largely been respectful even when disagreeing. The community here has been pretty good at labeling off basketball subjects as such, so that those who would rather not read such dialogue, could pass it by.

It was really disappointing that a mod or mods chose to pull the midnight madness thread. One of the posters in that thread, not with his own opinions, but links to others, was Jerseyshore Johnny, one of the most universally respected posters here. The midnight madness event was one of those where basketball bisected political discourse of today, and I enjoyed reading the perspectives while not posting myself. One of the revelations for me at least, was that the term "thug" when used by non-African Americans was perceived as a racial slur. WHile I may have had a contributing opposing opinion on that topic, I will say that I learned something that I will hold onto for restraint when using that word in the future.

While I fully appreciate the mods overseeing discussions here, I hope in the future that we can continue to discuss these topics because in my experience at least, there has been a whole lot less of hurling insults that occur on other websites, and more of a forum for constructive dialogue. Erasing such discussions doesn't make root causes go away, and such avoidance of tough topics among intelligent men and women only serve to polarize us further.


I gotta be honest Beast, I voice my political opinion on this board because I sometimes find the need to vent, and because I can do so here with relative(many of the posters, including you, know me personally) anonymity. I no longer do so on social media due to professional reasons. I am imminently aware that my opinions mean little (or nothing) to those with differing opinions, and I'm totally fine with that. At this point in my life I could frankly care less what anyone thinks about my opinions. I don't voice them because I think it's going make a modicum of difference in how someone else views things. At the same time, I find myself having less and less tolerance for, and interest in, other's opinions. More than ever, I adopt the philosophy that opinions are like a-holes.
 
One of the things that I find really cool about the redmen.com community is the ability to for the most part discuss really hot topics where there are divergent perspectives. Much of our country is so polarized that any websites that allow posts on the most relevant topics confronting our society as for the most part opportunities for posters to belittle opposing opinions, get very angry, and for the most part call each other names.

There was a period as recently as a few years ago, where the "politics and religion" forum on here had to be shut down because there was so much hostility and inability to control emotions that it was totally counterproductive as an exchange of ideas and opinions.

Former Pa. governor Tom Ridge, the first director of Homeland Security in the aftermath of 9-11, said at the time that American politicians and the public in general had lost their ability for civil discourse. He said an essential aspect for the success of the two party system was to sometimes have vastly different viewpoints on the problems that face our society, but to respectfully listen to opposing opinions, and then both sides figure out the right thing to do.

In recent years, despite an ever widening divide between left and right, on redmen.com we've been able to discuss really difficult subjects from different perspectives, from contributors of different races and ethnicity, political persuasion, and economic and cultural differences. For the most part I think this redmen community has handled this interchange really well. On occasion, there have been flareups of anger, which is to be expected when such topics are discussed.

As a result, despite some very different viewpoints I've come to respect and like some posters with very differing opinions on some subjects. People such as Fuchsia, Tom in Salem, Chicago Days, JohnnyFan, and many others present differing views that are cause to contemplate and reflect on. Posters such as Ezi Uzi, Paul Masell and most of you are often so well informed on a variety of issues and write such well organized and cogent, coherent thoughts that they are a pleasure to read, regardless of perspective. Even Fun, who I have a communications detente with that has worked reasonably well, often posts things that are so well researched and composed that I have been inclined at times to break the detente and tell him. There are so many of you who contribute frequently on these off subject topics (such as Monte, and Mjmaher) that it is a reason in itself to log on here.

My point is that while we are all primarily here to discuss SJU basketball, which we all are passionate followers of, I often find it refreshing to discuss politics and religion here in a mostly friendly environment that has largely been respectful even when disagreeing. The community here has been pretty good at labeling off basketball subjects as such, so that those who would rather not read such dialogue, could pass it by.

It was really disappointing that a mod or mods chose to pull the midnight madness thread. One of the posters in that thread, not with his own opinions, but links to others, was Jerseyshore Johnny, one of the most universally respected posters here. The midnight madness event was one of those where basketball bisected political discourse of today, and I enjoyed reading the perspectives while not posting myself. One of the revelations for me at least, was that the term "thug" when used by non-African Americans was perceived as a racial slur. WHile I may have had a contributing opposing opinion on that topic, I will say that I learned something that I will hold onto for restraint when using that word in the future.

While I fully appreciate the mods overseeing discussions here, I hope in the future that we can continue to discuss these topics because in my experience at least, there has been a whole lot less of hurling insults that occur on other websites, and more of a forum for constructive dialogue. Erasing such discussions doesn't make root causes go away, and such avoidance of tough topics among intelligent men and women only serve to polarize us further.


At the same time, I find myself having less and less tolerance for, and interest in, other's opinions. More than ever, I adopt the philosophy that opinions are like a-holes.

This forum is like being in a bar with some of the fellow fans here and after a few too many some tend to have bigger opinions than others. It is human nature. I am more tolerant than most and prefer the sarcastic levity approach when posting. Sometimes it's successful and sometimes , like in high school, I get sent to detention.
 
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